All Good Things Come Through Relationships

I am frequently asked how the Law of Attraction brings things to us. Some people actually expect good things to just appear (like money on the doorstep) but in real life, that is not how the Law of Attraction works.

All good things come through relationships. All increase and growth will come through people you meet along the way or people you already know. The Universe (God) will put into your path the people you need to meet in order to accomplish your goals.

A perfect example is an associate I am currently working with. Two years ago I originally spoke to him, he responded to an ad. At the time, he did not have the level of belief or faith that he could accomplish more in his life so was not ready to move forward.

After two years went by, he had learned a great deal and had started dealing with some of his limiting beliefs. Amazingly, he responded to an ad of mine, not realizing it was someone he had talked to before and now he is ready to move forward.

The universe brought us together originally but since his vibration was not in line with what I offered, he opted not to move forward. Now he is ready and his vibration is one which will allow him to achieve his goals and once again, the universe put us together at the opportune time.

This is how it always works. Someone introduces you, someone answers an ad, someone bumps into you, whatever the method, the universe will bring you together.

When vibrations are in line, the universe is super charged to work putting everything into place. People you meet will have the nuggets you desire. It is simply a matter of keeping an open mind to allow those relationships to develop.

All too often, skepticism, anger, frustration and other negative energies block the view of the person you should meet. You shrug them off, think “too good to be true”, run and anything else to self destruct the opportunity you need to reach your goals.

So, while working toward your goals, always keep an open mind and heart. The right people will come to you but it is up to you to welcome them in. It is your responsibility to trust and allow change to happen.

To Your Success!

Success and Abundance Mindset Carnival #9

Art Thailand presents Genesis of a gallery. Genesis of a life. posted at artThailand.

Chris614 presents Remember Your First Day Of School posted at The Philosophy of Change.com.

Edith Yeung presents I Have Confidence and The 7 Rules of Networking Made Easy posted at Edith Yeung.Com: Dream. Think. Act..

Tupelo Kenyon presents How to Keep Your Word posted at Tupelo Kenyon

Debra Moorhead presents Accept Responsibility posted at Debra Moorhead.com.

Susan Velez presents What Are You Willing To Do To Become A Millionaire? posted at The Secret To Life.

Peter S C presents 5 Reasons to Grow Rich posted at I will change your life . com.

Joseph presents time management posted at Self Help and Personal Development.

John Wesley presents How To Become a Highly Productive Night Owl posted at Pick the Brain.

Christine Kane presents Are You Saving Money or Wasting Time? posted at Christine Kane’s Blog.

Tupelo Kenyon presents The Subtle Side of Manifestation – part 1 of 4 posted at Tupelo Kenyon

Christopher J. Brunner presents Tips for Gaining and Impressing Potential Investors posted at GreatFX Business Cards

Aaron M. Potts presents How to Make Money with the Law of Attraction and Conscious Creation posted at Today is that Day.

Brad Trnavsky presents Choose your attitude! posted at Brad M. Trnavsky – Sales & Management Blogger.

Scott Allen presents If You Could Ask John Assaraf and Murray Smith One Question… posted at About.com Entrepreneur’s Guide.

Sean LeMay presents Use Military Tactics to Reach Your Dreams posted at Sean LeMay.

Ted Reimers presents Benefits of getting an MBA posted at CampusGrotto.

Anastasia Kile presents How Long Does It Take for the Law of Attraction to Work? posted at Beyond Manifesting – Anastasia Kile’s Official Blog.

Coach Peter Khoury presents Beyond The Secret! posted at InControlCoaching.com.

Stacey Derbinshire presents Why You Would Be VERY Wise To Start A Business While You Still Have Your Day Job posted at Starting a Small Home Business.

Tom Stanley presents How to Investigate a Business Franchise Opportunity posted at Tom’s Franchise Information Blog, saying,

Mike Harmon presents Home Based Business Tips – Three Reasons to Outsource Your Businesses Accounting Needs posted at Basic Accounting,

Randy Nichols presents Learn to Invent and Reinvent Your Future posted at Career Advice by Randy

Matt Hanson presents Matt’s Creative Advertising Blog » Blog Archive » Is Traditional Publicity Dead? posted at Matt’s Creative Advertising Blog

Stacey Derbinshire presents Licensing Your Way to Wealth posted at Starting a Small Home Business

Lucynda Riley presents A Little Weird and I posted at The Crazy Cat Woman.

Anastasia Kile presents Where Are You Now? posted at Beyond Manifesting – Anastasia Kile’s Official Blog.

This concludes this edition of the Success and Abundance Mindset Carnival.

The Only Way to Solve Money Problems – Name it and Claim it

I am frequently astounded at how people “claim” their problems. Just look around the Internet and pay attention to how people talk about problems. I am even more astounded that people have web sites based on their problems. What could possibly be the purpose of this focus and attention?

I am reminded of a great quote:

“Celebrate what you want to see more of” Thomas J. Peters

Celebrate what you want to see more of, is basic Law of Attraction. I refer to it as Name it and Claim it. What you give focus and attention to comes to you, so why would anyone give attention and focus to any “problem”.

Now, first of all, I do not support simply ignoring your problems. However, you deal with problems as temporary challenges, taking whatever action is necessary to resolve them and then you let them go. Once something is history, it should no longer control your energy and attention. This means you should not talk about it, write about and dwell on it.

Constant discussion only buys into the drama of the story and brings more adversity into your life. It is the “claiming” things as a problem and holding them in our lives that puts us in situations we can not climb out of.

When you give attention to something at this level, the drama of it brings more of into your lives.

You have total control over your life, not only the way you handle things and react to them, but how long they are a part of your life and to what level they affect you. You even have total control over your finances, but if you talk about them in the negative, you get negative results, not prosperity. So why would you want more of the “bad stuff?”

The only way to resolve any problem, especially financial is to deal with it quickly and succinctly and then let it go. Put it in the past where it belongs.

Do not dwell and talk about things that bring you frustration or anguish.

Talk only about the positive things and leave the negatives where they belong.

Yes, I have had great adversity in my life and every time, it was very short and very temporary. Instead I chose to have more and never told anyone about the problems, because I did not want more of them to come to me.

And that is the point, I choose success, I choose happiness, I choose everything good to come to me.

When it comes to money issues, it is best to get someone else to deal with them for you. The energy you give the situation, will bring you down, so by having someone else deal with it, gives you an opportunity to focus on what life will be like when it is behind you.

Name and Claim only what you want in your life, never what you do not want. Talk about it, think about it, dream about it, write about it. The more energy you give it, the faster it will come. Name and Claim only the good stuff, never the bad. Get rid of the chatter in your mind that holds you back. Do not voice your problems out loud either, words have a power of their own and will completely block your prosperity.

Keep it simple, keep it quiet and keep moving toward your goals.

To your success!

Success and Abundance Mindset Carnival #8

Welcome to the June 18, 2007 edition of Success and Abundance Mindset. Some terrific articles for you this week. Enjoy…

Coach Peter Khoury presents Beyond The Secret! posted at InControlCoaching.com.

Stacey Derbinshire presents Why You Would Be VERY Wise To Start A Business While You Still Have Your Day Job posted at Starting a Small Home Business.

Lucynda Riley presents Self esteem may be Cultural posted at Quietly Into the Night.

Tom Stanley presents How to Investigate a Business Franchise Opportunity posted at Tom’s Franchise Information Blog

Jason Rakowski presents Cellular Retailers Must Greet Customers within 30 Seconds – Study posted at Learn Good Customer Service

Jason Elder presents The 6 Laws Defining Bankruptcy posted at A Bankruptcy Lawyer’s Blog

Mike Harmon presents Home Based Business Tips – Three Reasons to Outsource Your Businesses Accounting Needs posted at Basic Accounting

Edith Yeung presents When you turn 30… posted at Edith Yeung.Com: Dream. Think. Act.

Alexandra Levit presents Do You Know How to Take a Compliment? posted at Water Cooler Wisdom.

Charles H. Green presents Non – Linear Leadership Thinking vs. Behavior posted at Trust Matters

Alvaro Fernandez presents On Bill Gates Harvard commencement speech (and his Frontal Lobes) posted at SharpBrains

Susan Velez presents Dogs Are So Laid Back posted at The Secret To Life.

Bradley Woods presents The 12 Great Riches of Life posted at Conceive, Believe, Achieve

Albert Foong presents The most dangerous mistake in tapping your intuition posted at Urban Monk

Azmi M. presents I Can Do it – Desi Baba posted at Azmi M..

Henry Bagdasarian presents Food And Credit Products Are Not Very Different From Each Other posted at Free Identity Theft Prevention, Detection and Fraud Solutions.

Mike Harmon presents Accounting Ledger and How to Write Ledger posted at Basic Accounting.

Mike Harmon presents Every Business Organization Needs Data Entry Services posted at Basic Accounting.

Aaron Wakling presents A Credit Card For A Small Or New Business Can Be A Powerful Monetary Tool posted at The Credit & Credit Card Blog.

Robinson Go presents Achieve Success by Setting Goals posted at Robinson Go dot Com

Mike Estep PhD presents Roll Up Your Sleeves and Get to Work posted at Mike Estep.com

Bob Crawford presents Growing Your SELF Blog – Bob Crawford Online posted at Growing Your SELF Blog – Bob Crawford Online

Craig presents The greatest success tip ever posted at Pursuit of Happiness Blog.

Wilson Ng presents Creating a Culture of Entrepreneurship posted at Reflections of a BizDrivenLife

Azmi M. presents Understanding the Law of Attraction posted at Azmi M..

Dianne M. Buxton presents Money Beyond Belief – the Actual Outcome You Seek posted at manifestingsuccess

Jason Cockfield presents The Secrets of the Universe: The Law of Attraction posted at Higher Endeavors.

Anne Maybus presents When Opportunity Knocks and Grabbing hold of that idea.You have to find a w… posted at The Tall Poppy

Success and Abundance Mindset Carnival #7

Fabulous articles for this week’s Carnival. Definitely some different approaches and things to consider. Thank you to all who participated.

Azmi M. presents I Can Do it – Desi Baba posted at Azmi M..

Robinson Go presents Achieve Success by Setting Goals posted at Robinson Go dot Com

Mike Estep PhD presents Roll Up Your Sleeves and Get to Work posted at Mike Estep.com

Bob Crawford presents Growing Your SELF Blog – Bob Crawford Online posted at Growing Your SELF Blog – Bob Crawford Online

Craig presents The greatest success tip ever posted at Pursuit of Happiness Blog.

Mike Estep PhD presents Roll Up Your Sleeves and Get to Work posted at Mike Estep.com

Wilson ng presents Creating a Culture of Entrepreneurship posted at Reflections of a BizDrivenLife

Azmi M. presents Understanding the Law of Attraction posted at Azmi M..

Dianne M. Buxton presents Money Beyond Belief – the Actual Outcome You Seek posted at manifestingsuccess

Jason Cockfield presents The Secrets of the Universe: The Law of Attraction posted at Higher Endeavors.

Anne Maybus presents When Opportunity Knocks and Grabbing hold of that idea.You have to find a w… posted at The Tall Poppy

Financial Mindset – How much money are you really worth?

I spend my days working with people to teach them how to make money and every day, take a serious look at the mindset people operate from.

It is very interesting to see the result of someones life as it compares to their mindset. Simply said, I can only teach people to make what they think they are worth.

First of all, let me clarify. Living a prosperous life is not really about the money, it is about the lifestyle the money provides. It is about the freedom, the choices and the options available to those who create their lives. But the greatest challenge to me is helping people to see that the amount of money they earn is directly relevant to how much they think they are worth.

I talk with people everyday who see themselves in a very small place, the challenge is to move them to see the bigger picture.What does this mean?

Let’s do a very simple exercise. Take out a piece of paper and without much thought, simply write down on that paper how much money you want to make this year. What did you write? Was it $1 Million, $500,000 or maybe even $50,000?

Whatever you wrote on that piece of paper is what you are worth (today)!

Value is a perception only, so if you have the perception that you are worth $50,000 then I am sorry to inform you, that is all you are worth (at this time). But you may say… sure, but it is June and the year is half over, or, I don’t know how to make more right now, my current salary is this or this or that or whatever!

The fact is, 90% of the result is the mindset. So if you see yourself making only $50,000 then you have the mindset of making that amount. On the other hand, if you see yourself making $500,000 this year, then that is the mindset you are working with and your chances of making that amount dramatically increase.

I have said in many of my articles that making a Million Dollars is the easiest thing in the world, the hard part is DECIDING to make a Million Dollars. It is one thing to WANT a Million, but if you have not decided to make it, then you are just in a state of want and will never move past that with your current thinking. Your current thinking is responsible for where you are today, in order to move beyond where you are, you absolutely must change your thinking.

Another very important point is this…It is not your job to figure out HOW to make the amount of money you desire, it is your job to DECIDE what that amount is. Once you make a decision, which involves a fever of desire and an unstoppable mindset, then the method will come to you, but you must DECIDE first.

Bottom line, as I said, I work with people to show them how to use a simple system to achieve financial success. But, if a person has the mindset of $50,000 then they will take this Million Dollar opportunity and make $50,000 with it. On the other hand, if they have a Million Dollar mindset and desire, they will make the Million.

The other person will literally leave $950,000 on the table for someone else to make and then complain that the opportunity is not worth more than $50,000.

Think about it very seriously. What is your financial mindset? Whatever it is, is what you are worth. Let’s talk later about how to increase that mindset.

Make it a fabulous day, you deserve it.

Wanda Grindstaff
Summit Advisor, LLI

Financial Mindset – How much money are You Really Worth?

I spend my days working with people to teach them how to make money and every day, take a serious look at the mindset people operate from. It is very interesting to see the result of someones life as it compares to their mindset. Simply said, I can only teach people to make what they think they are worth.

First of all, let me clarify. Living a prosperous life is not really about the money, it is about the lifestyle the money provides. It is about the freedom, the choices and the options available to those who create their lives.

But the greatest challenge to me is helping people to see that the amount of money they earn is directly relevant to how much they think they are worth. I talk with people everyday who see themselves in a very small place, the challenge is to move them to see the bigger picture.

What does this mean? Let’s do a very simple exercise. Take out a piece of paper and without much thought, simply write down on that paper how much money you want to make this year. What did you write? Was it $1 Million, $500,000 or maybe even $50,000?

Whatever you wrote on that piece of paper is what you are worth (today)! Value is a perception only, so if you have the perception that you are worth $50,000 then I am sorry to inform you, that is all you are worth (at this time). But you may say… sure, but it is June and the year is half over, or, I don’t know how to make more right now, my current salary is this or this or that or whatever!

The fact is, 90% of the result is the mindset. So if you see yourself making only $50,000 then you have the mindset of making that amount. On the other hand, if you see yourself making $500,000 this year, then that is the mindset you are working with and your chances of making that amount dramatically increase.

I have said in many of my articles that making a Million Dollars is the easiest thing in the world, the hard part is DECIDING to make a Million Dollars. It is one thing to WANT a Million, but if you have not decided to make it, then you are just in a state of want and will never move past that with your current thinking. Your current thinking is responsible for where you are today, in order to move beyond where you are, you absolutely must change your thinking.

Another very important point is this…

It is not your job to figure out HOW to make the amount of money you desire, it is your job to DECIDE what that amount is. Once you make a decision, which involves a fever of desire and an unstoppable mindset, then the method will come to you, but you must DECIDE first.

Bottom line, as I said, I work with people to show them how to use a simple system to achieve financial success. But, if a person has the mindset of $50,000 then they will take this Million Dollar opportunity and make $50,000 with it. On the other hand, if they have a Million Dollar mindset and desire, they will make the Million. The other person will literally leave $950,000 on the table for someone else to make and then complain that the opportunity is not worth more than $50,000.

Think about it very seriously. What is your financial mindset? Whatever it is, is what you are worth. Let’s talk later about how to increase that mindset.

Make it a fabulous day, you deserve it.

Success and Abundance Mindset Carnival #6

Welcome to the June 4, 2007 edition of success and abundant mindset. This is an amazing group of articles to assist you in creating the life you desire. Enjoy…

Uni – The quickest way to get is to give and The Long Arm of The Law of Attraction posted at You Deserve More
Tristan – How to Model Excellence to Achieve Personal Success posted at The Synergy Institute
Debra Moorhead – 7 Ways to be Happier and More Fulfilled in Everything You Do and Think Like A Winner posted at Debra Moorhead.com.
Kennubo – 5 common belief that cause mental retardation posted at Ken Nubo — Your daily source of rambling.
Ellesse – Inspirational Stories I : Wilma Rudolph, An Olympic Wonder posted at Goal Setting College.
Laura Young – When Your Old Self and New Self are out of Sync: Social Drag posted at Dragon Slayer
Dan Harris – China Business Tips, Yee Ha posted at China Law Blog
Becky McCray – What I learned from failure posted at Small Biz Survival, Moneywalks – Saving Money Update posted at moneywalks.
Alexandra Levit – Just Graduating? 5 Career Tips You Won’t Learn in School posted at Water Cooler Wisdom.
Victor Fam – Towards a Better Life Articles » Archive » How to Enhance Your Brain and Memory posted at Personal Development Articles.
Gustav S – Focus your Energy toward your goals! posted at success-is-in-you.com
Conan Stevens – Working 9 To 5 Is It Really You and Wishful Thinking vs Positive Thinking / Affirmations vs Action posted at Thinking About Life
Christine Kane – Doubt is a Drag Queen posted at Christine Kane’s Blog.
Albert Foong – Stepping into greatness and out of unhappiness with dynamic goals – Aristotle and Ego Series. posted at Urban Monk
David – One Million Dollars Generators posted at Worldwide Success
Stephanie West Allen – Having trouble reaching your goals? Then aspire in the fire! posted at idealawg.
Kevin Kinchen – The Awesome Power of Gratitude posted at Creative Power of Thought: Thoughts Become Things.
Almomento – 10 Steps to Better Efficiency in Your Day to Day Life posted at BurstCreativity.
Ananga – 5 Ways to Master Your Emotions posted at Ananga Sivyer’s Living by Design Blog.
Wilson Ng – No Photography or Recording Allowed posted at Reflections of a BizDrivenLife
Ryan Shamus – I Am Going To Be A Successful Blogger posted at Ryan Shamus dot Com.
Susan Velez – Plants Are Like Dreams posted at The Secret To Life.
Zenofeller – The drowned faithfull posted at zenofeller.com.
Edith Yeung – Edith Yeung.com Dream Think Act » Blog Archive » How to Identify What You Really Want? posted at Edith Yeung.Com: Dream. Think. Act..
Richard Ingersoll – It’s Time to Fly Down From the Tree posted at Applying the Law of Attraction
Vera Nadine – New Channeling: The Law of Attraction posted at Vera Nadine – Discovering true hope through the magic of spirit
David Richeson – How to Overcome Negative Emotions posted at 360 Degree Success
John Place – Jesus Versus The Secret: A Christian?s Guide to the Law of Attraction posted at johnplaceonline.com
Heather Flanagan – VIP Meme Project: Visualizing a World That Works posted at Visualize Possibilities.
Karen Lynch – The Prosperity Game and Visualization Realization posted at LivethePower
Cade Krueger – Visions of Excitement posted at Write To Right.
Mike Estep PhD – Right-Brain Training – Practical Applications Part 4 posted at Mike Estep.com
Craig Harper – So, You Want to be a Writer? and Motivational Speaker posted at Renovate your life with Craig